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If you have been dating a chinese woman exclusively for six months, and her birthday comes it is ok to buy her a gift
and tell her that you like spending time with her. But if you have known a woman for a few days and you try this kind of thing,
you are going to shoot yourself in the foot. Chinese girls are experts at recognizing men who do not get it. If you do not
get it, plus you are trying to compensate for the fact that. you do not get it with gifts and compliments, then you are really
screwed or not screwed, as the case may be. Keep in mind that chinese brides watch guys do this in a chinese dating service
all the time. The point is that if you do not understand it, then nothing you do is going to work for you. The problem is
bigger than you can imagine, and you are going to need to take a totally different road to get where you are going. There
are a few particular things that really annoy single, attractive women. One of the reasons that these things annoy single
chinese ladies are because they are dating endings. A woman can like everything about you, but if you do these things
or even one of these things, it can end your chances of success with a chinese pen pal. If I had to describe the one single
thing that both annoys women in china and ends a guy's chances, it would be this. It has taken me a long time to see this
particular pattern, but it is everywhere. Men, in effect, say hi, I want your approval and attention. I am willing to let
you be the one who is in control and let you call the shots and do anything to please You if you will give me your attention
and approval. But the problem is that women do not want you to give up your status and manliness. China women are not attracted
to men who act weak and tentative. A chinese single secretly does not like when a guy does something to demonstrate that he
will give away his power in return for approval. Take a few minutes to think this one over, and maybe write down the ways
that you make this mistake with women. Women hate this stuff. It makes them want to run away. One of the things that triggers
a woman's is a man who follows. The real problem is that most women will not try to lead naturally. So you have got a situation
where a man is trying to follow a woman who is not leading. He is looking for little cues so he knows where to go and what
to do but he is not getting them. Everything about the way he asks says to the woman. I am trying to figure out what you want
me to do please help me know how you want me to act, where you want me to take you, and what you want me to say. men who do
not lead.
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